Monday, September 23, 2013

"Blurred Line" by Robin Thicke - What do you think?

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What is this song all about?
          Blurred Lines” is a song by Robin Thicke, released last March 2013. It features T.I. and Pharrell. This song has catchy beat and tune which led it to top different music charts over the world and even rank the first in the Billboard chart. However, the song brought up different controversies due to its lyrics and music video.

          Because of these criticisms, we had analyzed the lyrics of song during our English class to know more about it. In the discussion, we had read over the lyrics closely and we also directed ourselves to what the public says about the song. According to our interpretation, the speaker of the lyrics was a man trying to convince a woman to engage in a sexual relationship with him. The audience was a woman who was being convinced by the man but she is already in a relationship with another man. The basic situation contained in the song is that a man was getting the woman to be in a sexual relationship with him although the woman had already engaged in a relationship with another man. The man is trying to convince that the woman wants it as well and she is being degraded as an 'animal'.

My opinion...
          To be honest, I never heard the song or I never paid attention to it before the discussion in class. Is it only me? Well, before the interpretation of the song, we had listened to the song once. This was my first time to hear the song and I found it very catchy as well, like most of the people did. Did you? However, after we had looked closely into the lyrics, I found the song very shocking. The song was disgusting in terms of how it portrays a woman. I may surely be biased in my opinion but when I came to truly know about the lyrics, I did not want to listen to the song anymore despite its catchy tune and beat. I agreed to the article on Mail Online which said that the song is banned in an university because it 'trvialises rape'. I thought that this might be really true. This is a song which is played anywhere and for anyone, even the little children and teenagers like me. Although not everyone of us would listen to the song after analyzing it, I still find it 'awkward' as it is trying to suggest to the young listeners that rape is an 'okay' thing. I found it more disturbing when Robin Thicke said in an interview that it is fun to degrade a woman. He later explained that this was just a joke but I don't really think it was entirely a joke. The Huffington Post also uploaded an article about this matter and because of that, I came to know that Robin Thicke thinks there is nothing wrong with the song and in fact, it is even promoting the rights of a women. This quite confused me because his stand was the extremes. I also had so many questions in my mind. Is the catchy tune really more important than the message of the song? Would a song still be considered as something 'artistic' with this kind of controversies over the lyrics? Well, I thought that music was supposed to build communication and give a form of entertainment 'equally' for men and women. As a girl, I may be only looking at one side of this issue but I do think that this song went over the limitations on what a song is to be. I hope that these songs would be tolerated from now on to create a better world for men and women.

          Now, what do you think about the song? I think it is now the time for us to be more concerned on what we are exposed to in our world...

Sunday, September 15, 2013

Making a Difference to achieve a Balance - "The Mask You Live In"

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          "The Mask You Live In" is a documentary film by Jennifer Siebel Newsom, which the trailer was uploaded on Kickstarter.com by July 9, 2013. This film was created to raise concerns around masculinity and to take a step closer to achieving a balanced and equal society for both men and women.

What are my thoughts about this?
          I can certainly say that I did learn and realize a lot of things from this film. I think that this was really a great film to draw my attention to social issues such as this. The video presents the idea that men's problems and difficulties are not directly shown in different forms of media unlike the females but they also do suffer from these things. I think this is very well said because I do not see much of masculinity problems in public. However, it seems like boys are restricted to certain rules since they are a kid. This includes, "You shouldn't cry, you should be cool" and many other statements. According to the video, it says that these restrictions are causing men to hide their problems, pain and anger. Because of that, the psychologists suggest that men in America are more prone to behavioral diseases, drug abuse, dropping out of school and even taking away their own precious life.

          The things said in the video is really saddening and I believe that is what we are supposed to work on. As a female, I certainly do not know how it is to be a man in our society but I do believe that men have the right to social and emotional well-being as well. I think that all of us can work together towards achieving a balance in our society. All of us do have a role in creating a society of equality. To know more about this, you can watch the video below, "The Mask You Live In".

Changing our Lives through Blogging

Mena Trott
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          Mena Trott, the founder of blog revolution, delivered a great message through TEDTalk which might interest everyone here. It also drew my attention to blogging after meeting her through it, which I am trying to do right now. She have shared some stories about herself, her friends and some bloggers who touched my heart greatly.

What benefits do we get from blogging?
          According to Mena Trott, blogging can be influential and that it can even change our lives. Well, I really came to agree with this after browsing through different blogs. One of her examples was about "Odin". He was born one-pound at 25 weeks. Because of that, his father started blogging about him every single day from birth until present at Snowdeal.org. That is how Odin and his father were able to gain courage - by blogging. So now, Odin is a healthy boy. I think that is the power of blogging. It generates motivation for people to strive harder to live, succeed and be happy. Another example was about a cancer patient who spent her last days blogging. Blogging was a form of comfort for her. Although she was not able to survive the sickness, she was able to live her last days to the fullest. She was happy to tell her life by blogging. Mena Trott also shared a personal story that there was a time she slowly stopped writing about her personal life. This was when she had received unwanted comments after writing about her husband, who did not allow her to buy a banjo. I do think that these might really happen too, if I am to write here about myself. Despite that, I think blog is a great place where we can speak of ourselves, our lives and our moments because of the fact that we are not able to speak of everything in our real world. I believe many people would be able to relate to that. I also think that blogging can really serve as an inspiration for ourselves and even to the readers. As we share our problems and thoughts through blogs, we are able to see things in different perspectives and make a change in our lives. This makes us to be encouraged and motivated to face the world.

          So why don't we all take a step closer to blogging? As Mena Trott calls us to get interested about blogs, I do believe it would really be a great chance for us to clearly see who we are and direct our lives towards a brighter one. To know more about Mena Trott, you can follow her on Twitter, https://twitter.com/dollarshort or below is her speech about blogs.